My Story

You don’t have to go through this alone
I’m Catherine. A mother, and survivor of an emotionally and financially abusive marriage. I stayed in that relationship “for the kids” far longer than I should have. I thought I was protecting them. But in the end, it was my children who helped me find the courage to leave. When I realised, through conversations with my children, that the situation was impacting them more than I wanted to believe, something in me shifted — and I knew I had to break free. I believed the hardest part would be leaving. But I quickly discovered that the real challenges were only just beginning.

A Complex, Painful Journey
Leaving my marriage took enormous courage — but navigating the divorce process turned out to be just as, if not more, difficult. There were financial entanglements with a family business, legal complications, and emotionally charged challenges that made the road ahead feel overwhelming.

At times, it felt like I was climbing uphill through a storm, without a map or the right support. I made decisions under pressure, and accepted less than I was entitled to — just for the chance to move on.

Just when I thought it was finally over, even after the divorce process had ended, there were further financial complications linked to my ex husband’s business that put my home and stability at risk. Finding the right help took time, and the emotional and physical toll was significant.

But I got through it — and with the right support, you will too.

This lived experience, combined with my professional training, is what allows me to offer something more than theory: grounded, non-judgemental support from someone who truly understands how complex divorce can be — legally, emotionally and practically.

Why I Became a Divorce Coach
No one should have to go through what I did — unsupported, confused, and terrified. That’s why I trained with Sara Davison, the UK’s leading divorce coaching expert, and became a certified divorce coach myself. I now support others through their own separation or divorce, helping them feel less alone, less overwhelmed, and more empowered to make informed, confident decisions. I especially want to help women who, like I was, are caught up in financial or legal knots involving a partner’s business — a situation that’s rarely talked about but far too common.

Where I Am Now
Today, I’m settled in my home with my children. I no longer live in fear of what’s ahead — instead, I’m building a life rooted in peace, stability and hope. I’m now in a happy and loving relationship, and I finally know what it feels like to be safe, seen, and supported.

I want that for you too.